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July 11, 2014

3 Months (12 weeks) Old – Baby Update

General:

This month has been a bit up and down. We have been rather busy again and it’s flown by. We keep our days as busy as possible so we don’t get lonely while daddy is at work! At the moment we go to three baby groups and a life with baby class run by health visitors. On the other days I try to meet anyone I know round here or do lots of housework, washing etc. Not good at sitting still…


The weather has continued to be good so it’s been easy to be out and about. We’ve had another couple trips up to London. One with Isla and one without (!) which was our first overnight trip away from her. I’ll post about that soon.

We’ve has some issues with what we think might be a touch of colic in the evenings which has been tough. We’ve also had 2 hospital appointments for her cystic hygroma. One at Portsmouth QA hospital and one at Southampton General.

Some snapshots of our month…

Father’s day day out!

Garden time and Isla looking ‘fabulous’

Grannie visiting from Scotland

Baby life is tough sometimes!

First Swim – see post here

Silly smiley selfies

Daddy’s fave photo

#babyphotobomb

Cuddles

Love my little old man

Milestones:

Isla can now hold her head up pretty well and likes to be able to see everything that’s going on around her. She now looks at things more intently and has become quite fond of the TV (tut tut!). She loves to be with other babies and seems fascinated by them. Especially the boys much to her daddy’s horror haha. She likes to be sat up in her Widgey cushion or held up so she can try standing. When having tummy time she can shuffle herself forward quite far and fast with her legs. I think she’ll be on the move as soon as she can. Uhoh! She smiles a LOT and has also mastered the shocked look which is hilarious when she does it for no reason. The noises she makes are changing and sound more ‘speaking’ like i.e. they are different pitches and noises rather than just a cry. She has rolled over…once and I missed it!

Routine:

Still quite similar to her routine at 2 months but has dropped her midnight feed and has shifted her 3-4am feed to around 5-6am as of the past two nights.

The time under the mobile continues to be a hit in the morning and gives me time to do housework, sort myself out for the day.

We still do bath, massage and bed but I really need my massage classes to start so I do a better job!

Weight:

I got her weighed at 11 weeks and 6 days and she was just over 14lbs!!! She just keeps gaining and gaining. She’s got the chunky thighs now and chubby arms which are just so cute and squeezable.

Feeding:

Bottle times have changed slightly:
– 5-6am
– 9am
– 1pm
– 4-5pm
– 8-9pm

Still finishing every bottle! We’ve been having issues between 7-9pm with Isla screaming for no reason. She’s been fed, changed, bathed, had entertainment throughout the day but still cries so hard that she’s almost shaking for what appears to be no reason. It’s so hard to watch. I’m starting her on infacol now so hopefully that’ll help and Wonder Weeks does say she’s probably going through a developmental leap just now anyway so I imagine that won’t help.

Clothing:

We are still in 0-3 months in most things but have snuck into a couple 3-6 month dresses already. I’m so stuck on what sizes to buy her now. Should I start stocking up on 6-9 months or will the weather mean anything I buy now won’t be suitable then. Decisions decisions!

I’m enjoying this stage because she’s becoming more interactive by the day. It’s really lovely to watch her learn and grow every day.

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It’s not enough though, is it? We’ve always h It’s not enough though, is it?

We’ve always had diverse toys in our house (not enough, but I’m working on it ❤️), but when questioned ‘why do you buy your kids Black dolls?’, I’ve faltered and answered incorrectly. I would respond saying ‘because that’s the doll Isla liked the best. What does it matter? We’re all human’, rather than questioning why that person is questioning it in the first place.

In a massive learning curve this week, where I am actively trying to become an anti-racist ally, not just anti-racist/non racist in general, I have found so many shortcomings in my effort to educate my kids and in my own attitudes towards race. But this isn’t about me. So here are some resources I’d like to share on top of the ones shared in my stories.

Some books to read:
Me and White Supremacy - Layla F. Saad.
Why I’m No Longer Talking To White People About Race - Reni Eddo-Lodge.
How to argue with a racist - Adam Rutherford.
Brit(ish) - Afua Hirsch.
White Fragility - Robin Diangelo.
I Am Not Your Baby Mother - Candice Brathwaite.
So You Want to Talk About Race - Ijeoma Oluo.

Diverse kids books:
Anti Racist Baby - X. Kendi.
Riley Can Be Anything -Davina Hamilton.
Look Up - Nathan Bryon.
Mae Among The Stars - Roda Ahmed.
The Mega Magic Hair Swap - Rochelle Humes.
Let’s Talk About Race - Julius Lester.
Welcome To Our World - Moira Butterfield and Harriet Lynas.
This Book Is Antiracist - Tiffany Jewell.
The Extraordinary Gardener - Sam Boughton.
Let The Children March - Monica Clark-Robinson.
Ruby’s Worry - Tom Percival.
A Kids Book About Racism - Jelani Memory.

Some things to watch:
When They See Us.
13th.
Who Killed Malcom X.
Time: The Kalief Browder Story.
Explained: The Racial Wealth Gap.
Dear White People.
I am Not Your Negro.

My to do list:
- Sign more petitions.
- Donate to more causes.
- Listen to podcasts and share.
- Encourage changes in the school curriculum so that my children, and their classmates, get a better, much more rounded and diverse education.
- Call things out.
- Have honest/open conversations.
- Share content.
- To keep educating myself, whilst never expecting others to do it for me.

It’s just a starting point.

Thanks for listening x
Black Lives Matter. I can never pretend to unders Black Lives Matter.

I can never pretend to understand, but I will always stand.

I’ve been on a huge learning curve this week and have, shamefully, come to the realisation, which I should have a long time ago, that it’s not enough to just not be racist. We must also be actively anti-racist and do everything in our power to ensure our children are too.

Today is a day to stop, listen, support, educate ourselves, donate, sign petitions, take action in any way we can, big and small, to make sure that everyone knows we stand with our fellow humans, family and friends. But we can’t just do this today. We must do it each and every day going forward ✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼✊🏻
And breathe! First day without both my babies for And breathe! First day without both my babies for the first time in 10 weeks today and it couldn’t have gone better. Both had wonderful days and were full of stories when they got home. I said over on stories last night, which got an incredible response so thank you to everyone who reached out, that I am completely comfortable with my choice to send the kids back to school and nursery but would never, ever judge anyone who felt different. We are all in different boats in this storm we’ve found ourselves in and what works for my family, might not work for yours. I have deliberately stayed out of the ‘are you sending your kids back or not?’ debate as it started to feel like another toxic discussion, in the media and on social media, that was resulting in yet another parenting divide.
I could have had the kids in this whole time, under key worker provision, but tried my best to hang on till the phased reopenings that I hoped would happen when they did. They were what I was aiming towards. Don’t get me wrong, I have LOVED having the kids at home together for such a sustained period, we have made lots of memories and learnt so much more about each other, but mixed in with the nature of my job and the fact that @thisdadalife is deployed and so I’m on my own with minimal support, I couldn’t have gone on much longer.
When I got in from dropping them off today, and as I went upstairs to work at my desk, I literally collapsed on the stairs and almost cried in relief. Relief that we made it through, as dramatic as that sounds. I don’t think I realised the toll it was taking mentally as I was constantly running on adrenaline.
I am so happy to get a bit more balance back and to, most importantly, feel like a better mum again. Not a snappy trying to juggle it all 24/7 with no break mum.
If you sent your kids back today, whether you wanted to or not, I’m with you and support you.
If you have kept them home in your bubble for longer, I’m with you and support you.
If you’re still unsure what to do and are undecided, I am with you and support you.
Nobody knows the full extent of someone else’s circumstances and we have to stop and realise that before we judge anyone else ❤️
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This is the first year in YEARS that I have felt ok wearing a bikini. And I feel like it’s more down to how strong I feel, rather than how I look. Whatever it is, I hope it continues ❤️
On another note, how tanned does the @filterbymollymae fake tan make you look! 🙌🏻
(Both bikini and cover up are from last year).
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